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Patagonia coats sure are tough!
The title of this post is my favorite subject line from all the emails I've received this past week from friends and colleagues and perfectly sums up life.  It brought me a much needed giggle that I so badly needed.

I want to begin by saying thank you from the bottom of my (our) heart for the outpouring of love and support we've received this past week.  We've been flooded with calls, packages, emails, texts, gift cards, flowers and well wishes. We are thankful for every single one of them.  Just when I think things are calming down, something new will pop up on my doorstep or in my inbox.  It takes my breath away every time. So thank you, thank you, thank you!


My leg 1 week later
We are healing a little more each day.  I came home last Sunday evening with 3 broken ribs, a broken foot, a punctured lung, small air pockets in my chest cavity, and some severe road rash.  H, luckily, walked away with only a few scratches.  Emotionally, we both struggled immensely the first few days.  But each day gets a little bit better, both physically and emotionally.  H resumed his "study hall" with his friends on Monday and that seemed to bring immediate joy back to his days.  Each night the fears seemed to lessen and the conversations about that day shorten.  We still talk about it every day and I can say that I carry it with me in the back of my mind all the time.  But a lot of conversations have shifted to updates on our car, which are few and far between.  They still have not recovered our car or the woman who took it.  They have solid video evidence of her attempting to use my credit cards, but they still need to locate her and the vehicle.  It continues to pop up on street cameras in the city so we know it isn't far.  I am anxiously waiting for this part to end so I can feel some closure to this horrific event.  


Look, no more hair!
In the meantime, we will turn our attention to E's birthday this week and Matt's hospital stay this weekend.  We are incredibly lucky that Matt's sisters have decided to come and stay with us while Matt completes a 96 hour infusion at U of C.  This is in preparation of his transplant in late March.  We've been told his stay will be uneventful but the fatigue will kick in about a week after he gets discharged.  By then a lot of my soreness will have subsided and I can much more easily manage the tasks of every day life.  We will, then, have some downtime before transplant officially begins the last week of March.  Phew, we could all use a little downtime!! 

Again, thank you to everyone who sent a message, called us, dropped off a package or had something delivered.  We are constantly reminded how amazing you all are and how lucky we are to have you in our lives.  We very much look forward to the day when we don't quite need as much support as we do right now. :)



All our love, 

Matt and Mandy

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